Ultimate Guide to Sex Positions: Kivin Method

For those of you who haven’t heard, a new form of oral sex has entered the chat and you won't want to miss it. This new technique is called the Kivin Method and we’re here to walk you through it (in juicy detail).

What is the Kivin Method? 

While the origin of the Kivin Method is mysteriously unknown, we all owe whoever discovered it a big thank you!

In the most simple terms, the Kivin Method can be described as sideways oral sex. It offers a new form of pleasure to vulva owners by stimulating the clitoris “left to right”,  instead of the traditional “up to down” movement.

Why try the Kivin method? 

More stimulation 

The traditional “up and down” method of cunnilingus typically provides a more pinpointed approach, which many vulva owners can find unpleasant or even too intense. This new method will give you the opportunity to cover more ground, increasing pleasure and stimulation. 

Easier access

The positioning of the Kivin Method allows for easier access to the entire vulva, and to other areas that might have otherwise been overlooked. Due to this perpendicular position, the “giver” can easily access and stimulate the vulva, perineum, and even the anus. It also allows for more freedom and space if deciding to introduce fingers or toys into the mix. 

Faster orgasm 

Those who have tried this method are praising that it made them reach orgasm within 10 minutes. We’re not saying that orgasms should be done as quickly as possible, but it never hurts to have a quick fix in your back pocket. 

How to get started: 

Step 1:

The “receiver” can start by laying down on their back with one leg lifted and the “giver” would lay perpendicularly (so that your bodies create a T shape). If there’s usually a side of your clitoris or vulva that generates more pleasure and sensitivity, your partner might want to lay on that side of your body. If you don’t know which side is more sensitive for you, this is always a great way to find out. 

Step 2: 

Your partner will want to start kissing and teasing different areas of your vulva, perineum, and anus to see what feels good for you. Then, they can then move their way up to the clitoral hood and sweep their tongue across it, going side to side. 

Step 3:

Introduce fingers or toys to the equation for optimal stimulation. Again, this position allows for easier access and more freedom in terms of hand movements so get creative and have fun. 

Whether standard positions in oral sex haven't always done it for you or you're just looking for a way to mix it up, then it’s definitely worth kivin’ this a try!