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Bellesa 101: Anal

By Bellesa Team

We’re back and talking booty tips! We get tons of questions like “how can we bring this up with a partner?” or “how can we have a pleasurable experience when exploring anal play?” Here are our top tips on getting into exploring anal play!

The key to exploring anal is having the tricks and tools to make it a pleasurable experience... So here are are our top tips (and Bellesa toys) to help you discover the amazing world of anal play.

1. Cleanliness

You want to be clean (of course, that’s a no brainer) but messes can happen - and they are also avoidable. It can be as simple as avoiding any funky foods if you know you’re probably going to be playing around a little bit later, or going to the bathroom and doing your business beforehand and then taking a shower. You can also look at investing in an anal douche, or have cleansing wipes nearby for extra mess-prevention.

2. Ease into it 

Think of anal training like a marathon and not a sprint. Start by getting aroused with something like a finger, a mouth or a toy before going further.

Here are some toys that can help with your butt play: 

  • Our Anal Training Kit is a great option to start with. It includes 3 butt plugs in varying sizes, perfect to help progressively make you feel more comfortable. 

  • Tush, our remote-controlled anal vibrator, is a great choice for anyone looking for some more stimualtion. Tush was created with bbs of all experience levels in mind. The toy features a tapered shape and smooth high quality silicone, making it easy to insert and comfortable to wear, while its flared, easy to grip base ensures safe and secure play.

  • You can also try out a small dildo like the Bellesa Luxe Dildo - 5"  - another great option to help slowly get you acquatined with booty play. 

3. Lube, lube and more lube

One of the most important tips when it comes to anal play is using lots and lots of lube! The Bellesa Water-Based Lubricant is the perfect naturally hydrating, water-based personal lubricant. Remember: SPIT. IS. NOT. LUBE. The more lube there is, the less friction there is, therefore a less painful experience. So just when you think you have enough lube, add some more!

4. Open communication and trust

Open communication and trust with the person that you’re exploring this with isn’t just a suggestion but a necessity. Frequent check ins throughout are totally normal and encouraged, and changing your mind for whatever reason is also okay. You should never feel pressured to do anything you’re not feeling fully comfortable with. Any type of sex needs to be safe for you and your partner to have fun and enjoy one another.

5. Breathe

We don’t think about it, but when we’re stressed our bodies tend to tense up and we hold our breath. But when we actively take mindful, relaxing and deep breaths, your brain sends a signal to your body that you’re safe and you can relax.

When you’re prepared properly, butt stuff shouldn’t hurt! It can actually feel really, really good, and produce some of the most powerful orgasms.

For an even deeper dive on how to explore anal play, you can check out more of our guides on anal here and here! 

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