Car Sex 101

Have you gone to town in a car recently? HINT: I am not talking about literally driving into town to go grab milk.

When you think of car sex, you may think of awkward teenagers fumbling around in their parents’ minivan, however, it can be so much more fun than that for people of all ages. Whether you need a quick place to get off away from the kids, are on a road trip or just can’t wait to get all the way home before hooking up, the car can be a great option.

Below are some tips and tricks on how to get the most out of car sex.

Understand The Value

The first step to enjoying car sex is looking at your car differently. The car is no longer just your mode of transportation it is now a fun, kinky, NEW, destination. Certified sex therapist, Jenni Skyler says “New places mean novelty and excitement,” and “The car is far less expensive than a hotel room, and may not even require a babysitter if you stay in your driveway.”

Plus the act of car sex is inherently taboo because of the potential of being caught. Since you are somewhat having sex in “public” this can help with quickly developing feelings of naughtiness and excitement. 

The Right Place and Time

While the risk of being caught is absolutely alluring, you’ll want to avoid getting in real trouble with the law, so it is important to find a good location. This means parking in a spot that has the utmost privacy and is of course, far, far away from any schools. Finding a spot that is secluded, such as an empty parking, lot is a must. Consider waiting for nighttime to ensure darkness so it is harder to see in your windows but if you are itching to get to it in broad daylight just take some extra precautions.

Cover Your Windows

If an afternoon delight is your mojo, we celebrate you. However, if your windows aren’t tinted, we do suggest you consider draping some fabric over them, to give you a little more privacy. This can easily be done by slipping a towel or blanket in your window and rolling it up to secure it in place. But if you are in a place where no one will find you and it’s a nice summer day, throw caution to the wind and keep a window down. The breeze will be delightful in that steamy car and you can thank us later.

Plan Ahead

This one may sound counterintuitive since car sex is often super spontaneous but if you do know you may want to engage, it’s best to bring some essentials. Say you are heading out on a road trip or have gotten super into car sex on date nights, then planning ahead by bringing your favourite things can be helpful. These things can be but aren’t limited to:

- pillows and blankets

- sex toys (don’t forget to charge the vibe)

- baby wipes to clean up any mess

- towels if you and/or your partner(s) are squirters

- condoms

- lube

Set The Mood

Turn up the speakers in the car and put on your favourite sexy playlist (Try one of our Bellesa playlists!). Maybe that’s sex chakra music or Marvin Gay; whatever it is, it is sure to set the tone for the sensual time ahead. Radio runs the risk of distracting commercials, and you may not have a free hand to change the channel easily. But some type of music is a great choice so that you can buffer your moans and get as loud as you like.

Use the Space

Whether you’re in a smart car or an Escalade, knowing how to manipulate the space is key to doing the deed in your vehicle. You can experiment with reclining chairs, using trunks, and laying down in back seats. Be patient and once you find out what works best, repeat it. Avoid the driver’s seat as this can be more dangerous and make sure to engage the emergency break before playing. Slow down and be intentional with your movements and if the space isn’t humping/penetrative sex-positive, experiment with other options. Oral, hand play and mutual masturbation can be just as, or even more, fun.

With all of these tips you should be on your way to a fabulous journey of car play but of course if you try car sex and it’s not for you, no biggie. Life is all about experiencing and trying new things.