7 sex accessories everyone should own

While you may be familiar with accessories for masturbation (read: vibrators, dildos, etc…), there is a wold of sex accessories that are designed to elevate sex with a partner. From couples toys, to furniture, lubricants, to kink products; here are the sex accessories you must have in your collection to elevate your sex life. 

1. Wand

According to the gents of the Bellesa community, a wand vibrator is their fave toy to use on female partners. Wands come in all shapes and sizes so do your research to find the right one for you.

If you’re looking for discretion then we recommend the Demi Wand — small, quiet, discreet storage case, and uber powerful!

If you crave something a little more traditional (but still elevated, since wands have been around since the 60s), look no further than the beloved Nirvana! This is a Bellesa OG and best seller for a reason!

2. Lube

If you’re not using lube, what are you even doing? Lube is a must for enhancing comfort and pleasure during sex. Choose wisely, as some lubes can be heavily fragranced and cause irritation, or contain ingredients that weaken condoms (steer clear of anything oil based!). We recommend Bellesa Water-Based Lube for the smoothest addition to your night stand.

3. Ramp/Wedge

Angles, angles, angles! Sometimes the different between a great O and an “almost, but no” comes down to hitting the right angles. If you’ve ever tried putting a pillow under your back then you probably understand the power of a sex bolster. Level it up with a wedge or ramp for maximum support and discover a whole new world of pleasure… See, geometry can be sexy ;)

4. Blindfold/Restraints

From cuffs, to shibari ropes, to DIY methods, restraints are a super sexy way to ease into the world of kink and BDSM. Take it up a notch with the addition of a blindfold for a sensual experience that heightens your other sense. If you have any interest in dabbling in the world of BDSM (or if you’re a seasoned vet) then blindfolds and/or restraints are a must in your toy chest… maybe even throw a whip in there for good measure.

5. A couples toy

Cum one, cum all! While most toys can be used with a partner, consider investing in one that’s made to. Our fave is of course the Halo vibrating cock ring, bringing good vibes to both parties simultaneously is *chef’s kiss*.

If you’re looking for something a little more interactive, look no further than the Luvli Ditto 2, the ultimate couples toy with g-spot and clit stimulation with the added fun of a remote control!

6. Massage oils

In this house we love foreplay, and massage a sexy massage is the oldest trick in the book! A massage is a great way to release tension and calm nerves, which is a must for pleasurable sex. Leaning into the sense of smell, the use of aromatherapy oils can help set a sensual mood.

If you want to venture onto the kinkier side, consider the world of wax play! Please please do your research and only use body-safe candles!

7. Cleansing wipes

While cleaning up might seem like the least sexy part of sex, it is the most important. Be sure to clean yourself and any accessories you used post coitus to avoid harmful bacteria and possible infection (hot, right?).

While they’re are many effective ways to clean your toys and other sex accessories, there is truly nothing easier and convenient than these Bellesa cleansing wipes. 

Coco Chanel famously advised that you should take off one accessory before leaving the house…. We say add one accessory before getting started in the bedroom ;)