Vibrators 101: your guide to buzzworthy pleasure

So, you’re curious about vibrators. Maybe you’re a total newbie, maybe you’ve dabbled, or maybe you’ve got a nightstand drawer that could stock a small boutique—no judgment, just pure vibes. Whether you're looking to explore solo pleasure, level up your partnered play, or finally figure out WTF a rabbit actually does, we’ve got you covered. Consider this your crash course in buzzworthy bliss.

Why use a vibrator?

Whether you’re flying solo or getting frisky with someone else, a vibrator can add a very welcome buzz to your sex life. These toys bring intensity, variety, and a level of precision that fingers and tongues can’t always match. They’re perfect for exploring your body, learning what you like, and turning up the volume on pleasure—literally.

For couples, vibrators can spice things up without replacing intimacy. They’re tools, not rivals—think of them as sexy sidekicks that can supercharge oral, enhance penetration, or just make things more playful. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or swiping your way through Tinder, adding a vibe to the mix is a bit like upgrading from dial-up to high-speed.

Types of vibrators

The world of vibes is vast and glorious. Here’s your cheat sheet to finding your perfect match (or five).

Clit vibes  

These are designed for external stimulation and zero in on the clitoris, which—fun fact—is packed with 8,000+ nerve endings. Ideal when you want intense, targeted pleasure—whether lying in bed, in the bath, or during a quickie on your lunch break. Check out the Pebble—it's discreet, silky-smooth, and perfectly contoured to hit your clit like it was it, whether you're lounging solo or adding some extra buzz to partnered play.

Suction vibes

These create a gentle vacuum effect that mimics oral sex and stimulates the clit without direct contact. Perfect for when you want toe-curling orgasms that build slowly and then explode in the best way. Check out the AirVibe—a groundbreaking fusion of cutting-edge tech that gently sucks and caresses the clit (like an eager lover), while delivering deep, targeted g-spot stimulation on the other end.

G-spot vibes

These vibes are curved just right to reach that elusive g-spot, offering deep, internal stimulation. A must for when you're craving pressure that hits just the right spot and leaves your sheets (and mind) wrecked. Meet the Thrust—a dual-stim powerhouse with natural thrusting motion, swirling beads, and over 5 inches of insertable bliss, all designed from millions of data points to deliver next-level blended orgasms.

Rabbit vibes  

These are the multitaskers of the vibe world—simultaneously stimulating the clit and the g-spot. Great when you're feeling greedy (which, let's be real, is totally valid) and want everything all at once. Try the WhisperRabbit—it’s velvety-soft, whisper-quiet, and delivers powerful dual stimulation without overwhelming the moment.

Wand vibes

Big, bold, and built for body-shaking orgasms, these iconic vibes are usually used externally but can be paired with attachments for deeper exploring. Ideal for those deep muscle tremors, or when you need stress relief and orgasms, stat. Check out the Nirvana 2—a sleek, powerful wand that blends luxury and ease, ready to take you from everyday stress to full-body bliss, wherever you are.

Bullet vibes

Tiny but mighty, these are perfect for beginners or those who want to keep things simple and discreet. Pop one in your purse, your suitcase, your bedside drawer, or even under your pillow for a quick fix wherever, whenever. Try the Bullet Soft-Touch—a pocket-sized powerhouse that delivers surprisingly strong, rumbly vibrations, perfect for pinpoint clit play anytime, anywhere.

Remote-controlled vibes

These vibes come with a remote (or app) so someone else can control the fun—from across the room, or even across the world. Great for date night, power play, or just bringing a little surprise into your day. Try the KeyVibe—a sleek, app-controlled panty vibrator with custom-fit wings and a magnetic clasp to keep it in place, while its remote control is cleverly designed to look like a car key, ensuring maximum discretion for your top-secret mission.

Silent vibes

For when you have roommates, thin walls, or just prefer your moans to be the only thing breaking the silence. These are sneaky-quiet but still bring the thunder. The WhisperVibe is the world’s first silent g-spot vibrator, offering discreet, powerful pleasure with 6 delicious speeds and WhisperTech™ for all the intensity you crave, without a single sound.

Sex machines

Not your average vibe—these bad boys are for hands-free, high-intensity stimulation, often with thrusting or rotating features. Perfect for when you want to lie back, relax, and let the machine do all the work. Our Thrusting F-Machine is a game-changing sex machine with 10 vibration modes, 3 thrusting speeds, and a lifelike dildo, all controlled by a wireless remote for deep, hands-free pleasure.

How to use a vibrator: hot AF tips

Whether you’re new to toys or an infamous vibe connoisseur, these tips will keep your play safe, sexy, and oh-so-satisfying:

Start slow, build up. Especially if you're new to vibes, begin with the lowest setting and let your body get warmed up. Your orgasm isn’t going anywhere (except through your every cell).

Use lube—always. Silicone or water-based lube can make a massive difference in comfort and sensation, especially with internal or powerful toys.

Explore together. If you're using a vibe with a partner, make it a team adventure. Let them control the settings or use the toy on you as part of foreplay. A little trust can be hot AF.

Don’t forget aftercare. Clean your toy after use (most Bellesa vibes are waterproof and easy to wash), and take a moment to cuddle, hydrate, or bask in the glow.

Mix it up. Try using a clit vibe during penetrative sex, or combine two toys at once for a custom pleasure cocktail. You’re the boss of your body—so get it to get off.

There you have it: Vibrators 101, aka the sexy syllabus you never got in school. No matter your style, relationship status, or experience level, there’s a vibe (or ten) out there ready to rock your world—so go on, treat yourself. No matter how wild the world gets, a little pleasure goes a long way—and in times like these, a good orgasm might just be revolutionary. 💖✨